In case you are still thinking of presents – I am ordering some chatbooks this year – for the people that have everything and love our kids (aka the grandparents ;).
If you click here – you can get your first book free!
Quick run down of how it works: You can either compile them on the website and add captions etc – just like any other photobook.. OR – you can do it through the phone app. OOOORRR – you can link it to your instagram account and have it print your pics for you automatically – every 60 pictures for 8$ flat per book. And you can set it up to automatically mail a copy of the book to each grandma, or – whomever is on your list! But you still get to go in and edit the pictures if you want – it gives you the option before it’s sent to print. But – if you’re lazy, or I mean – efficient – like me ;) – it’s a great and easy way to outsource meaningful gifts!
Here, maybe this lady will explain it better ;)
And they have some really cute specials for the holidays. And – I was surprised by how much Niko enjoyed looking at pictures of himself with the first chatbook that we got a while back! And I was also impressed with the print quality! For that price – mmazing!
A friend of mine wanted to get the boys an advent calendar. She’s a good friend, so she knows about my shopaholism issues, and she asked me first. Turned out – I already have the two types of advent calendars she was thinking about (chocolate and Playmobil) but her and I started looking together at what else is out there and were blown away! There are so many cool ones out there! I wanted to share them with you and give you my thoughts (which may be a bit cynical at times – being the only girl, I am often reminded how fragile beauty is and why we can’t have nice things).
This one’s a classic. It’s got magnetic pieces that you stick on to the board, and then you can see how many days you’ve got left until the big day. Pros: learning numbers, like with all the advent calendars, and it can be used as a toy year around – developing fine motor skills, etc.
Cons: lots of small pieces that all have to be accounted for in order for this all to work properly. Yes. It says 3+ on the package. How many people pay attention to that? Especially when they don’t have kids themselves and are buying it as a gift. I can’t speak for your household, but over here – I can just see these pieces getting thrown around, stuck on the fridge, attempted to be stuck on non magnetic surfaces, ending up under the fridge/sucked up in the vacuum/chewed up by the dog/swept up by a well meaning grandma… And then what. Christmas never comes because we’re missing a couple wooden disks?
Bottom line – this calendar is pretty awesome but houses with small boys generally can’t have nice things.
2. Advent Chocolate Calendar(like this one)
To me this type is even more classic than the basic countdown one. The first advent calendar I saw was a chocolate one. It didn’t really make sense since in Russia New Year’s is bigger than Christmas and Christmas is on January 7th. We never figured out when we should have started opening it, so – we just opened the little windows in order and ate all the chocolates within a few days. And that’s the problem with these calendars – you can’t just eat one!!!! They require so much self discipline!!! We won’t be doing these for a while (or at least – the boys won’t know I’m doing one ;) – instead of getting excited about Christmas – for us it turns into a tantrum trigger… But if you’re brave – this could be a great teachable moment!
My only piece of advice: check the ingredients! Not all advent chocolates are created equal.
We actually used this one – but not for Christmas. When Niko had to be in the hospital for a week of very very intense treatment – we would bring this in for him several times a day (he had to be mostly alone in the room… this is not relevant to the calendar. sorry!) And though he was a bit young for it – it was still fun and did a good job of keeping him entertained. Each day is either a car or some accessory for it – like pieces that snap on to make it a sleigh, etc. If your boy loves Hot Wheels – this one’s awesome!
Playmobil makes AWESOME advent calendars!!!!! We actually have several. Here’s a tip – if you’re facing a long flight ahead of you – get one of these and set a timer – and open a number each time the timer goes off. We’ve got the fire fighter one, the robbery at the museum one, and an actual Santa Claus one hidden in the closet – waiting for next week.
The only downsides – each part comes in a plastic bag – so if you are using this for travel – you’re gonna have a lot of trash. And – you’re also gonna have a lot of small parts, so – bring a bigger baggie or a box to keep it all together. They also have some fun ones for girls too. So if you’re looking for a non-edible advent experience – this is definitely my #1 rec!
I’ve seen a couple of calendars like this – with an activity or a prompt for each day. And I’m looking forward to doing one of these – making memories together seems like a much more holiday appropriate activity than just consuming tiny chocolates. Of course – you can always get crafty and make one yourself! Maybe I’ll get a little bit of Pinterest up in here and do just that…
Yay for the holidays approaching! Don’t get overwhelmed and plan ahead ;) If you order one of these today – you can get it before December starts!!!
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It has now been almost a month since we got back from our Make A Wish trip to Hawaii.
In case you aren’t familiar with Make A Wish, it is a non-profit fueled by donations and volunteers that makes wishes come true for kids with life threatening illnesses. Obviously, neuroblastoma is a life threatening illness, and so – Niko’s social workers submitted him for a wish. Volunteers contacted us and came to our house to get to know him and find out what his wish is. It was a bit of a challenge for them because – a 3 year old, and especially Niko – thinks that everything is awesome and everything is his favorite. If you ask him what does he like better, a or b? He’ll say – B! And A! I like B and A and A and B… So – our Wish team had some thinking to do. I was expecting to end up in a tent on a cactus plantation somewhere in Arizona, surrounded by people with mustaches… =) But thankfully – cacti and mustaches didn’t even come up. Niko was telling and showing them all his Disney character toys, and talking to them about the beach. Sometime after their visit, I don’t remember how long it was, but there was no rush – since we wanted to finish all of his treatment first – they told us in secret that we were going to go to the Disney resort Aulani in Hawaii. The movie Hotel Transylvania has been a regular in Niko’s rotation while at the hospital so he learned to be excited about Hawaii (in case you haven’t seen it, the main character wishes to experience life outside, among the humans, and – go to Hawaii, so of course he asked me what that was and we would talk about it every time).
The volunteers came again to reveal Niko’s wish to him – they brought him a poster that said “Niko is going to Hawaii” and a treasure chest filled with Disney toys and “Finding Dory” outfit. It was very cute and he still plays with it all the time!
A few days before our trip they visited again, and this time brought him a Mickey in Hawaii cake and a Mickey pizza!! As well as a folder for us with all the information we could possibly need – every phone and reservation number for every piece of the trip, what to bring, what not to bring… As well as spending money – for food and souvenirs. There was also a letter to the crew of the airplane – about Niko and that he was on this trip and – maybe they can let him into the cockpit. But we never even had to get that letter out – everyone on our trip was so amazing!!!!!
A limo came to pick us up in the morning. It was 5 am so – it was very early. But both boys were so excited!!! In fact – Niko didn’t sleep at all the first day. And with the time difference and having woken up at 4 30 am – that was the longest day of his life! At the airport we got to go through the first class check in, and there was an actual agent assigned to us – to escort us from the beginning to the plane! We got to hang out with one of the pilots before the plane got there, and then we got to hang out with all the other pilots on the plane before other people were allowed to board.
There was a greeter waiting for us as we got off the plane, with flower and kukui nut leis, that took us to our taxi.
Niko didn’t fall asleep even on the 40 minute taxi ride!!!!
And this is him after the early wake up, almost 5 hours on the plane, and 2 40 minute car rides… I’m jealous of those energy levels!
Stay tuned to see the rest of our stay!
(because -it sounds like you guys need to start becoming more familiar with Russian things . . . Kopeks are like our cents. Expect compared to American cents they’re worth much less. . )
This isn’t about politics. . . I try to be as apolitical as possible. . .
You know how -everyone loves in different ways. For example -I enjoy reading and I love to share certain passages with people -so they too can enjoy the experience. Part of my love for my spouse -is to read to him the extra good pages of my books , as I read before bed. He, on the other hands -loves to just go to sleep. So -I have learned that it is much more meaningful and loving to him for me to stfu and let him sleep! I have augmented the way that I love based on the feedback I’ve received. That doesn’t mean that when I would read to him -that act of love was any less pure or legit. It was as honest and true and -I was genuinely loving in the best way that I can.
I kind of think – when Trump says he respects women -it’s a similar situation. He may very genuinely believe that he respects us to the best of his ability. Everyone respects differently . . . But -it’s his unwillingness to listen and change that based on the feedback we’re giving him -that kind of taints that respect and makes it less meaningful to us. What is it ultimately about -him feeling like he respects us or us feeling respected?
Well. Let’s hope I’m wrong !